tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post2430773941655303833..comments2023-07-31T04:14:49.832-04:00Comments on Life as a Sandwich: Life Isn't Fair. But That's Okay.Nicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14145625896565064664noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post-51395347232146935242007-03-18T17:21:00.000-04:002007-03-18T17:21:00.000-04:00Wow, powerful post... I was just having a similar ...Wow, powerful post... I was just having a similar conversation with some friends over coffee today, one of whom just had a m/c recently. It is really, really hard when people try to "comfort" you with the reassurance that you'll be able to have what you want (and what so many others have without seeming to even have to try) b/c you've "paid" for it karmically in some other way. But you're right, life doesn't work that way. Still, I'm totally rooting for you.E. Phantzihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05812948199658356521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post-29375243046227747482007-03-17T05:21:00.000-04:002007-03-17T05:21:00.000-04:00I think it's absolutely nothing to do with deservi...I think it's absolutely nothing to do with deserving. Deserving makes no sense. No one deserves for their child to die at birth, no one deserves alzheimers, no one deserves to suffer horrible, interminable pain. Sadly deserving a positive outcome from our fertility woes means nothing - we either get out of here or we don't.Thaliahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12125639207843989848noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post-84638026938266383532007-03-12T13:26:00.000-04:002007-03-12T13:26:00.000-04:00It's certainly nothing about deserving. I think w...It's certainly nothing about deserving. I think we all deserve to be pregnant if we'd like to be. But you do sound like a very patient and caring person!hope548https://www.blogger.com/profile/11951199252401108222noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post-78733429328891409712007-03-10T09:53:00.000-05:002007-03-10T09:53:00.000-05:00I agree, and it is hard - but you describe it so b...I agree, and it is hard - but you describe it so beautifully that it is hard be upset about it. It's just... life.squarepeghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05413935206519813828noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post-40074550256482378182007-03-10T07:17:00.000-05:002007-03-10T07:17:00.000-05:00I don't disagree, but man is that a hard lump to s...I don't disagree, but man is that a hard lump to swallow. I'm still trying to bite it off a little at a time.<BR/><BR/>This is a beautiful post, and I just wanted to reach out and make it all ok. But I can't.<BR/><BR/>And that doesn't seem fair.<BR/><BR/>BeaBeahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11877513815828460269noreply@blogger.com