tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post3212132921471530630..comments2023-07-31T04:14:49.832-04:00Comments on Life as a Sandwich: Back From The HospitalNicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14145625896565064664noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post-77543363800949034902008-04-21T19:34:00.000-04:002008-04-21T19:34:00.000-04:00Everything ok? It's been awhile ...Everything ok? It's been awhile ...Cathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14504655919861269088noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post-21427017153996494872008-04-20T17:14:00.000-04:002008-04-20T17:14:00.000-04:00I hope things are still going okay...I hope things are still going okay...Samanthahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02799401502134619497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post-90659969384235285542008-04-13T16:05:00.000-04:002008-04-13T16:05:00.000-04:00I've started reading your blog again recently and ...I've started reading your blog again recently and am glad you got the clear to go home. Take care of yourself. And I'm sorry you had to deal with this whole situation alone. And you are much nicer that I would have if my husband had acted that way towards me. Yes I'm sure he may have been stressed too in his own way but he needed to focus on you and the baby, you were priority that night.Ivonnehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00438670648342329996noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post-44964997525052041732008-04-09T22:24:00.000-04:002008-04-09T22:24:00.000-04:00Wow. What a crazy few days. I am glad to hear th...Wow. What a crazy few days. I am glad to hear that Spunketta is now behaving herself. Frustrated you had to deal with it alone. Wishing you a less boring bedrest than I have been having.<BR/><BR/>And wishing you NO MORE BLEEDING.Schatzihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16197247859459483613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post-83772914568140818492008-04-07T21:30:00.000-04:002008-04-07T21:30:00.000-04:00Oh good lord. Thank goodness you're back on track...Oh good lord. Thank goodness you're back on track, and I hope it stays that way for a while yet.<BR/><BR/>As for your husband - well, I've only heard one side of the story and he does have a responsibility to Mamma so it's not really my place to get all critical but... fuck! Take things seriously, man! That was an actual situation that needed to be taken seriously, even if, due to external circumstances, it wasn't practical for him to be there every step of the way.<BR/><BR/>Like you and others, I'm sensing some denial there. I hope he snaps out of it in future. I think you handled the situation just fine, by the way.<BR/><BR/>BeaBeahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11877513815828460269noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post-24187396105223872172008-04-07T20:34:00.000-04:002008-04-07T20:34:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry you had such a scary weekend! Glad t...I'm so sorry you had such a scary weekend! Glad to hear Spunketta calmed down. Hopefully baby gives mommy a peaceful ride from here on out...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post-80489805142348681952008-04-07T18:01:00.000-04:002008-04-07T18:01:00.000-04:00Your husband is an ASS. Anyone who would prefer t...Your husband is an ASS. Anyone who would prefer to put their mother ahead of the mother of their child does not deserve to be a parent. They are a child themselves still. <BR/><BR/>You would be better off leaving your husband and his mother and taking care of this child yourself. He isn't willing to get a real job, put his mother in a home and do anyhting else to get himself off his mothers teat...frankly he is a jerk and too much of a Momma's boy to be useful to you. He put your life and your babies life in danger by delaying so that this morhter was taken care of. He should have a babysitter for her lined up at all times or use a neighbour...and the fact that he was unwilling to put you first should tell you something about him. He loves his mother more than you and your baby. And thats not acceptable. Your child has to come first. Worse case scenario you should have put yourself in a cab or called an ambulance and gone without him.<BR/><BR/>He's a a$$.Brown Eyeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13408087118021653284noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post-76292017963572369292008-04-07T17:20:00.000-04:002008-04-07T17:20:00.000-04:00Hi,Found your blog looking for others who are goin...Hi,<BR/><BR/>Found your blog looking for others who are going through exactly what we've been going through... and here you are. We're over at coultertorin.blogspot.com. <BR/><BR/>You aren't alone.<BR/><BR/>-- Sean & Nichole & now CoulterCoulter Chronicleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04549897031448450728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post-18118175404550277762008-04-07T16:31:00.000-04:002008-04-07T16:31:00.000-04:00i'm so glad everything's settled down, and i'm so ...i'm so glad everything's settled down, and i'm so sorry (and a bit pissed off, really) that you had to do all of that essentially ALONE. <BR/><BR/>thinking of you...lltandersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09121516686657529961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post-73581762538456288332008-04-07T16:10:00.000-04:002008-04-07T16:10:00.000-04:00I am so sorry. If I lived ANYWHERE close to you (...I am so sorry. If I lived ANYWHERE close to you (instead of on the west coast), I would come and sit with you.<BR/><BR/>Thinking of you and that baby.Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08961948894847619115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post-43705589614602575512008-04-07T15:39:00.000-04:002008-04-07T15:39:00.000-04:00I am so sorry you went through this h*ll this week...I am so sorry you went through this h*ll this weekend. It sounded awful. But I'm glad things are going better. Take care of yourself. I hope things with mama and dh get settled.Waiting Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07487061896648183375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post-53887532209096453522008-04-07T14:40:00.000-04:002008-04-07T14:40:00.000-04:00wow. thanks for updating, I've been so worried. ...wow. thanks for updating, I've been so worried. Sounds like H is in a major, major state of DENIAL. wtf????? You must have felt so alone there.E. Phantzihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05812948199658356521noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post-54901133252163152402008-04-07T13:27:00.000-04:002008-04-07T13:27:00.000-04:00Glad to hear everything is OK.I'm a new reader, bu...Glad to hear everything is OK.<BR/><BR/>I'm a new reader, but does your husband have a sibling, or someone else who can watch his mom temporarily?<BR/><BR/>He's lucky he's not married to me, I'd have flipped. You seem to have handled the whole thing very well. Take care of yourself!Rachelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09708675281321049193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post-27495067736581452922008-04-07T12:56:00.000-04:002008-04-07T12:56:00.000-04:00I was starting to worry! I am glad that you and t...I was starting to worry! I am glad that you and the baby got the all clear for now! What a relief!<BR/><BR/>Please, please please...and I am sure you are already a step ahead...get a plan ready for Momma!Familyofthreehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07651933997488604718noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36186323.post-11206384722207879862008-04-07T12:21:00.000-04:002008-04-07T12:21:00.000-04:00Antepartum is any stay before delivery that's not ...Antepartum is any stay before delivery that's not in danger of delivering immediately soon (or so I was led to believe).<BR/><BR/>The contraction monitor is called a toco monitor.<BR/><BR/>No, I didn't do the pre-term labor spiel and spend countless hours in L&D, why do you ask? :)<BR/><BR/>Glad everything is looking ok for now. Hopefully that keeps up - how much longer? <BR/><BR/>Stay in bed. Take care of yourself. Let others take care of you ... and slap your husband for being such a jerk during all that. (I'm sure he's a wonderful man, but .. uh, not in this situation.)Cathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14504655919861269088noreply@blogger.com